I'm trying to change myself and have my own self worth be less dependent on hanging out with someone you love. I believed it more than I should have. She has short hair but she has the type of look where it looks cool on her. There's no specific reason, really; It's just harder for me to picture myself dating a girl. But recently I met this lesbian in my class and we've been talking.
The fact that I could make a woman who identifies herself as a lesbian question her sexuality should, i suppose, also give me a moment of pride, but mostly I just feel like a big dummy for not seeing it earlier, especially when the signs were all there. But with the way he treated me and the luck i've had with other men, that all has truly contributed to me being gay. I also know that we will most likely continue to have sex. A statistic like that is hard to figure out. But I don't freak out at the thought of a girl. Again I was thinking here we go how is this going to go, but we just hung out and talked had a couple of beers, never even brought it up so that was cool.
She was cool with it the whole time even during the initial conversation where she was clearly shell-shocked by my revelation - told me it didn't matter at all to her, wouldn't make anything awkward, whatever made me happy made her happy, etc. Who wouldn't want to be a lesbian if they could, right? I wasn't trying to change her or convert her. Picture: Getty No boys allowed? However, if I meet a lesbian, and she's never been interested in sex with her female partner, it's usually a little suspect. I've witnessed this crime scene with my jaded eyes too many times: A lesbian has lifelong crush on her straight best friend, and the straight best friend enjoys the special attention from her lesbian best friend. My head has no clue. Physically and sexually though, I'm more drawn to girls. We had lunch together and most of the time I would end up staying up late at night just talking to her on the phone for long hours during the night.
I still haven't had much more than a few dates, but I'm looking forward to starting something. I know some a bit analogical situation from lesbian perspective. She likes people with long hair who wear dresses. Any advice here would be appreciated. Like it's something I've not really 'chosen' or had a say in, y'know? She doesn't have many friends so him leaving hit her kind of hard, since she still thought of him as a friend, so I tried to be there for her. Shes sorta seeing another lass atm but Im feeling happy for her that she seems happy. If you are happily married and find yourself attracted to a female friend, it might be quite alarming to discover that you are bisexual.
And we've seemed to become stronger friends from it. Fast forward 9 months of awesome ridiculous friendship development and me still secretly liking her and I'm on my way to college. I asked her what was she was thinking right there. Maybe I'll give a boy a try and try to do more stuff with a girl to see how I feel about both. Or maybe you have a girl friend two words you feel warm toward - and you think you might be down with it if she wanted to be your girlfriend one word. The girl just wanted to reap the lesbian chivalry perks, without having to have sex with her.
Just enjoy the crazy ride, man! I went against my creepy thoughts and took a chance, whether it was designed to make me feel a certain way is all in my head. I still like guys but have come to the point where I cannot and will not deny my attraction and longing for a woman any longer. I'm also still trying to hang onto the straight. A lesbienne, as they say in french. As I'm trying to get her to talk I keep waking closer and closer to her.
Our friendship had got to the point where we would text every single day and if we closed the store together we would stay for like 30 minutes to an hour extra just talking. The idea of her actually being attracted to me confused me. So that said, I still find some men attractive, but I think it's more of the appreciation of a pretty human being than a sexual thing. She is completely dominating with women, but she completely submits to me. I'm in basically the same situation as many of the other posters here. She called me the other day and left me a voice mail.
Stick around and post some more. Erin somehow found out that we were dating even though I definetly didn't want her to know. But the harsh truth can be intimating and make you feel vulnerable. Men look weird naked, just. Shes the coolest girl I ever met and I care about her more than anything.