There is no harm in an old friend befriending the family. He got into drinking and drugs, and I would not tolerate that lifestyle. I found the smoking gun that tied all of my suspicions together a few weeks ago, and while I just wanna throw it in her face, but I cant just yet. Less guilt and imagination to contend with. Upon graduation, my high school sweetheart and I left for different universities in the same city, vowing to stay together, no matter what.
Sorry to be the harsh voice of reason, but I think you need to look into the possibility that you are an emotionally controlling person. N then not staying in contacted. I was already in the middle of a divorce myself. I thought I was different. My advice, get some quality friend time in.
She broke up with him a few weeks later. We can not kid ourselves. Both parties in the relationship should receive these things as well as feeling loved, respected, and appreciated. Your high school sweetheart was there when you shared all your dreams and thought anything was possible. Sadly I have nothing more to add cause everything he said applies to me too.
I fell for it cause I wanted to be loved. Our relationship was overall good but we obviously had our ups and downs but never broke up or anything. I know I said I expected it to happen, when in reality… it was all shocking… When you told me you wanted to end the relationship. My friend was hung up on this guy forever, he would go back and forth and never commit, now they are living together and she is going to have a baby. We have not spoke since I broke up with her 1989? I could not get a date to save my life back then.
Don't try to project that u changed cuz only the fact that u r trying to show her that. All I am saying is be careful, most likely you will loose this game and it will hurt a lot more than an evening at a reunion. I really love her and never in a million years thought something like this could happen to me. I was still in grad school and I was a bit flighty. I know with my new outlook on life I can make her the happiest woman in the world and never question her happiness again. You were already excited to see him - so it's quite possible you edited the married part out. I have not done that at all because I know it will only do more harm than good.
Why are some people posting negative comments here, this thread is about success stories, sure we all know its a possibility that we may not get back together but there are hundreds of other threads in this forum for that, so post those comments in that one Having hope is good, but so is being realistic. Looking back i wouldnt date him again and probably shouldn't have dated him then. She moved out of the area, but has moved back. The problem that I'm having is I'm trying to forget my ex husband and move on with my life. I've always been supportive of her choices, decisions, and life, but sometimes a little communication can go a long way. I would look back at the happy memories and smile and laugh at them And definitely will always treasure them. .
If you have half a heart, you will forward this along to your college buddy dating his high school girlfriend, and save him from making a decision that I assure you will haunt him for the rest of his life. I think we will be meeting up this weekend and having a talk and I will say goodbye and give her time to heal. Did you assume he was single or did you think you heard him say he was? I resolved to survive the. I hope you can understand. When I finally figured out what everyone already suspected, I shared my revelation with a couple of close friends. I have always been a hard worker my whole life and I think it stems from the way I was raised. He says he still loves me and wants me back as his wife.
Why is it still going on several years later? If i was making her feel a certain way or not making her feel, I wish she would've been able to talk to me a little more and maybe something could've been worked on and maybe not. We are now 25 and live together for a year and a half and she broke up with me. It's so stupid, but I feel a bit out of control. The moment you see him again, it all comes flooding back and realize the breakup was a big mistake. Sometimes your friends do know best. Do you think I smarten up! Foxie Thank you for sharing your story with me.