What do you think about astrology? Which are you more likely to fight for, love or money? These questions tend to work with anyone. If you had your human body, but the head of an animal, what animal would you pick? When someone shares this with you, you must respond with care, kindness, and trustworthiness. What awful movie do you love? The next women who asks about my hair I'm going to ask, is that your real nose? If it's rude, I really don't mean it to be. If you could have the answer to any question, what would that question be? I agree with you that men can often be silent, when you want them to talk. And what can you do when someone invades your privacy with an inappropriate or rude question? Those things I reveal because they are a matter of public record and the person interested can either get the information from me which doesn't bother me in the least or can get it from the public records. This conversation can be hilarious, romantic, sad, or a combination of all three.
But I have been on dates, or first encounters with men where it is very confusing as to why they don't ask any questions. Everyone has had the experience of opening up time for questions in class and hearing. Which historical figure would you most like to be? Life is not actually a series of MySpace questions. What mythical creature do you wish actually existed? I also need to know how many in each call centre are parents, married or single. How would that conversation pan out? I'm not a secretive person and I don't see why I should have to be embarrassed over some things, and I thought that answering people's awkward questions was better than leaving them to speculate behind my back.
How did the two of you meet? This is probably the most important question on the list. I can't be rude and stop her in her tracks as that could result in my being evicted. I despise passive-aggressive, covert harassment, which is what I think asking rude, inappropriately personal questions in public actually is: its masked hostility, or a form of bullying. What animal best represents you and why? Every conversation was like having to do a presentation, an act in front of a huge audience. If you were a ghost and could possess people, what would you make them do? What values are most important to you? Here are 28 best get to know you questions: 26. The answers give you great insight into what the person values most in life.
This conversation can be a tough pill to swallow for many. In between visits, we do talk on the phone, but the conversations are light, casual, and mostly about him. Everyone has their own way of pushing themselves. You will never fully know the interior of someone else that way. What are your biggest long-term goals? What are your three favorite albums? This is another question that can help you to plan future dates.
If someone narrated your life, who would you want to be the narrator? It also gives them a chance to brag about their adventures or misadventures a bit. Please abide by it the best you can. While this wish may actually be linked to any of the other, more negative emotions listed above, it can also be at least partly genuine. What artist or band do you always recommend when someone asks for a music recommendation? Soar amongst the birds or swim with the fish? What or who has taught you most of the information you use on a regular basis? With this guy, for example, when I visited him in his hometown, at one point we were in the car for three hours, and the car ride was essentially silent. What age do you feel right now and why? Her: What do you do again? What are some red flags to watch out for in daily life? Thanks for going into so much detail! Thank God I broke that cycle. Questions that give you the theoretical power to alter reality are a great way to find out what a person values on a more fundamental level.
You might also enjoy another Psych Today cartoon about No reproduction. What really needs to be modernized? This is a complex issue. What are your most important rules when going on a date? I'm going to have to go off and digest some of what you've said, as much as I know there's no magic key to sorting things like this out it's always a reality check to realise how much work goes into trying to tackle even the simple sounding issues. Which is more important, truth or happiness? This question can literally open up a whole world of conversation. I want to talk about something serious that's about you or me, or completely the opposite and just joke around and have fun. Would you rather be able to breath underwater or fly through the air? I didn't divulge the information -- but people who care, are sensitive to your needs and recognize boundaries. I get questions about my personal life all the time and most of the time these questions are way out of bounds.
Even when the other person's genuine goal is to embarrass you, the same answer, or some other way of being kind is actually a perfect way to turn the tables. Go away with this mess. Should kidneys be able to be bought and sold? And it is like Mohammed says, because I am possessed with narcissistic personality disorder. Btw, the links to the articles are underlined, but not bolded in Psychology Today, so sometimes you have to look for them. Good get to know you questions are unbelievably helpful when from scratch… because as we all know: Getting to know someone. Perhaps this person wants to pretend that this is their natural skin color and your question might spoil their mood. .
This great conversation starter has the potential to stir up plenty of laughs or a serious discussion, depending who you ask. Other issues such as reproductive choices, romantic choices, marriage choices before you marry but once you marry that is public record , health issues, etc. What movie quotes do you use on a regular basis? Where do you get your news? I think it happens occasionally, yes, and it always confuses me. A problem with answering these questions is that they can be used against you. That is their biggest problem. There are still moments where I struggle with these things, it's just easier to pull myself out of that minset now, catch myself before I go into another downward spiral. Think of a brand, now what would an honest slogan for that brand be? Do you ever wish I could read your mind? What a fool I was.