Blue Pill — From The Matrix movie and its sequels. We want to have a safe haven in which struggle has no place, where we gain strength and rest instead of having it pulled from us. Little girls fight in an entirely different realm than do boys. A lot of manosphere moralists believe that women ought to marry and get pregnant during the party years since this is the point of peak fertility as well as physical beauty, and in the not so distant, pre-sexual revolution past this certainly made sense. Modern women are totally lost in regard to this dichotomy this makes of them much easier preys compared to their sisters of before 1960 One of the central parts of my method of seduction along the years has been giving the woman mixed messages about these two men. The book does not whine about any of what is, it purely describes it. Our Blue Pill ego-investments were taught to us as part of our earliest socialization.
Years ago, when I was writing the post that would become the Schedules of Mating chapter of my first book, my emphasis was on how an evolved dynamic female pluralistic sexual strategy translated into evolved social dynamics feminine primary social conventions. Game is the practical application of a new knowledge and increasingly broader awareness of inter-gender relations — often referred to, for convenience, as Red Pill awareness, by myself and others in the broader manosphere. I mention in that essay about how a female amateur body builder I knew who was dumbstruck by how horny she became after her first cycle of anabolic steroids. Women are portrayed as being the only solution to the problem of maleness. The reason a woman has a Break is that her circumstances are changing; which affects her emotions. For many women this realization is their first experience with the dread that comes from a new uncertainty of attracting and retaining a man in monogamy. Tomassi has been a medical professional medical imaging so while she was pregnant she and her girl-friends at the hospital would take any free moment they got to sneak into the ultrasound room a have a peek at our gestating daughter.
Dread Game - From The Rational Male. In other words, women expect men to socially and psychologically agree with, reinforce and cooperate with the opportunistic feminine model of love as the equalist, gender-mutual model of love while still believing that women share their own idealistic model. The abstract exaggeration is to think a woman necessarily hits the Wall at 30, her physical attractiveness shrivels and she magically transforms into a spinster cat lady overnight. If I were to find myself single tomorrow, this would be exactly my motivation. Never envy a man his lady. Granted, not all women are capable of having children or some even desirous of them , but even in these instances substitute love priorities still supersede directing her primary attention towards a man.
If that security is more or less assured, there are feminine social conventions ready to make that prospect more palatable. Spend some time reading the sidebar. While I knew that her conditioned ego-investments in feminism would make any real revelation for her impossible, I proceeded to make my case that the latent purpose of feminism was to unilaterally facilitate Hypergamy by removing all constraints on female sexuality while maximally restricting male sexuality. Divorce fantasy stories and movies are directed primarily at this outlier and grow in popularity. However, the salient message of that graph is an uncomfortable exposing of the strategies women use in optimizing Hyper-gamy over the course of their lifetimes. Turnkey Hypergamy Hypergamy wants a pre-made Man.
The Kinsey study and many similar ones would indicate that this 7 maybe 10 day window predisposes women to Alpha masculinized sexual influence and would be the optimal period for a man to make a lasting Alpha impression. This is when Beta Dad doubles down. It is hard-wired in them, and this hard-wiring can be reinforced by poor family upbringing resulting from divorce of parents or absentee fathers. The Party Years are defined by a woman prioritizing the Alpha Fucks side of Hypergamy. His story is an exceptional illustration of this Beta limitation dynamic, but there are far more common examples with everyday men I know, and you probably do too. The following quote is from Why Muscularity is Sexy by David A.
Masculinity and vulnerability are defined by a female-correct concept of what should best serve the Feminine Imperative. For women and men steeped in this feminine correct conditioning, just being presented with the possibility that their ego-investment in that correctness is the result of a childhood and young adulthood conditioning that predisposed them to it will seem preposterous because making them aware of it challenges who they are as a person. Author by : Helen B. Long term provisioning potential during this phase is rarely even an afterthought for a young woman. Many older women will tell themselves that their experience, maturity, accomplishments and financial stability mean they should be way more valuable to men seeking wives than some young babe on the take.
The imperative of those conventions is to convince him of such before he comes to a full realization of his peak sexual market value, and thus putting a man into the prime sexual selector position. Rollo Tomassi is the author of this book. For a general instance, a hot, 22 year old coed will generally be more predisposed to the Alpha Fucks side of her hypergamous impulses because she has a better capacity to capitalize on it than a 44 year old divorced mother of two. Is it to remain in a perpetual state of plate-spinning bliss? That conditioning predisposes men to believing what should be true. When a person internalizes a mental schema see belief so thoroughly and has become conditioned to it for so long, it becomes an integral part of their personality. I use men exclusively in this context because, for the better part of your life as a Man, based on gender alone, you will experience rejection far more than any woman ever will. But I also, each day, see more and more clearly what is and is not in my control.
As such, these women will be more predisposed to misdirecting the men becoming more aware of this truth and relying more on the selling model of Beta provisioning. The material is simply too powerful, and that can be dangerous. This is easily observable in issues of multiculturalism, but it also universally crosses over into issues of gender. She missed out, and the epiphany becomes one of risking it all for one last chance at it. Some of these analogies and terms are still with the manosphere today, others have morphed into more useful abstractions; Alpha Widows, Hypergamy in its true nature , the Feminine Imperative, even Game are all examples of established terms or analogies for understood abstractions. These conventions are generally learned in an ambient environment that boys are encouraged to reinforce and affirm for her, but increasingly these social conventions are becoming overt and accepted. Looks, talent, tangible benefits and other core prerequisites may change depending on the individual woman, but to be a man is to perform.